Hi, I’m Marika, and I’m breaking-up with toxic perfectionist mindsets that keep me feeling like I’m “never enough.” Wanna join me?

I’m documenting my experiments to ditch unhelpful, hyper-productive mindsets that:

  • constantly keep me thinking my parenting and career efforts are “never enough.”

  • make it hard to fully enjoy the days I’ve been granted here on earth.

You should absolutely subscribe if you also:

  • Wonder how to stop running the same “Gee, I suck” thoughts on endless loop.

  • Find yourself thinking “Sure, life is a gift to be enjoyed… but I should probably earn it by crossing off just a few more things on my to-do list first!

  • Are excited to uncover a relationship with time that feels more friend-y than foe-y.

  • Have a neurospicy kid whose behaviors sometimes keep you up at night, both literally and figuratively (an occasional topic around here!).

Here are a few favorite past experiments:

MORE ABOUT ME

I’m a writer, ADHD parent coach, and educator living in the San Francisco Bay Area with my barbecue-obsessed husband, my video-game-obsessed 13-year-old son, and my musical-theater-obsessed 11-year-old daughter.

My essay on navigating my kids’ ADHD-fueled rages while recovering my own relationship with anger has gotten over a million views on Huffington Post. (That’s a lot of stressed-out mamas out there nodding along thinking, “Me too!”)

If you’ve been looking for like-minded humans sharing thoughts about why it’s so dang hard to get yourself to unload the dishwasher some days, how the heck to survive May-cember with a shred of sanity, or ways to unhook from the tyranny of your to-do list, you’ve found it! So happy you’re here.

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Experiments to break-up with perfectionist mindsets that tell us we'll never have, do or be enough.