One thing that my Mom did growing up was treat us boys like grown-ups for most things. Even at 5 if there was a "rule" in the house it applied to everyone. And reasons were given for things that we had questions for.
I think teaching respect that way has smoothed a lot of interactions for me as an adult but it does end up with me acting more like a kid than an "adult" at 39 since it's ok to act silly sometimes when all the work is done.
One thing that my Mom did growing up was treat us boys like grown-ups for most things. Even at 5 if there was a "rule" in the house it applied to everyone. And reasons were given for things that we had questions for.
I think teaching respect that way has smoothed a lot of interactions for me as an adult but it does end up with me acting more like a kid than an "adult" at 39 since it's ok to act silly sometimes when all the work is done.
My mind went straight to the request we ask of the kids to do their dinner chores. 😄
By the way, I love the little bit at the end where you highlight some good reads.
Wonderful Marika! And thank you so much for the share!
Great tips! I was just thinking about this the other day - talking more kindly to my kids. I like how you handle the “no” with curiosity